Navigating Growth: Jessy Siew’s Solo European Exchange
My exchange at Oxford Brookes University in the United Kingdom was one of the most meaningful experiences of my academic journey. It was my first time in Europe, and the fact that I travelled alone and planned the entire trip myself made the experience even more transformative.
The academic environment was different from what I was used to. Learning emphasised independent thinking, active participation, and open discussion rather than rote memorisation. Seminars and lectures encouraged students to share opinions and support ideas with critical reasoning. This approach strengthened my confidence in expressing ideas and sharpened my problem solving and analytical skills. A highlight was learning from tutors with diverse professional backgrounds, including published authors such as James Bannerman, whose lessons combined theory with practical insights and real world applications.
Beyond academics, the cultural experience was equally rewarding. Interacting with peers from across the world enriched daily university life and deepened my appreciation for diverse perspectives. Beyond the classroom, I travelled across Europe to London, Salzburg, Vienna, Munich, Belgium, the Netherlands, and the Berch Alps. Each destination broadened my worldview through unique traditions, cuisines, and historical landmarks.
What made this experience especially meaningful was that it was my very first time in Europe, and I undertook the journey completely on my own. From booking flights and accommodations to planning my travels across multiple countries, every detail required careful thought and responsibility. Navigating unfamiliar cities without prior experience taught me not only practical skills like organisation and time management, but also the importance of trusting myself when faced with uncertainty. That sense of independence became one of the most valuable lessons of the entire exchange programme.
Living abroad alone came with challenges, but those challenges became the foundation of my growth. At first, the idea of living abroad felt daunting, but each obstacle whether cultural differences, academic expectations, or daily routines became an opportunity to grow. I learned to adapt quickly, to approach problems with resilience, and to see challenges as stepping stones rather than setbacks. This mindset has stayed with me, giving me confidence to embrace new opportunities and reinforcing the belief that stepping outside my comfort zone is where the most meaningful growth happens.
One of the most unexpected highlights was attending an International Women’s Day event. At first, I had not planned to go, but I decided to attend and it turned out to be well worth it. There, I had the chance to meet Malaysian TV broadcaster Haliza Hashim Doyle. I had never even had the opportunity to meet her in Malaysia, yet through this exchange I crossed paths with her in the UK. That moment reminded me how global experiences can create surprising connections and opportunities that would never have happened if I had stayed within familiar surroundings.
This exchange was not just an academic programme, it was a turning point. It taught me independence, open mindedness, and the courage to embrace uncertainty. The friendships, lessons, and courage I gained will stay with me long after the program, shaping not only my career but the way I approach life itself.
